Why some people never pass in practising Non-duality

Why some people never pass in practising Non-duality

I know numerous people who are influenced by some type of spiritual doctrine or the other. There are the Iyengars, then the ISCKON people, there exist the Ramakrishna Mission members and several other modern groups that have sprung up recently. They spend years and years doing all the same things just going around in circles without achieving anything other than the most ordinary. Most of them are just looking for free food and shelter- some of them just want to find a partner romantically. They do not achieve any other goal than following some type of groupism and a lot of sensory titillation superficially. I have met so many people who started out with some kind of love affair that turned bitter and they had no choice but to follow deep spirituality- nearly every second person in these missions is romantically abused and exploited emotionally. Can there be some system whereby such people are stopped in their tracks with some timely intervention socially? Can they be educated and informed about how they are spreading all types of nonsensical and chaotic messages to all those who are attached to them mentally? I have a few such contacts working for me on a freelancing basis and I feel that they are not gathering any other wisdom or even accruing any profit other than just some short-term personal benefits like helping out in some homely chores or other types of temporary homely errands randomly. The most pitiable state is when they profess their romantic inclination towards you, not realizing that it is nearly impossible to carry out any type of LGBTQIA arrangement practically. This type of an existential dilemma is not typical to any one type of gender specifically. There all types of straight relationships and their attached undercurrents transpiring all over such social groups most tragically.

But the truth is that many such people are not realized nor are they accomplished or established in any other truth except for their materialistic layers just on the surface level of their personality. Their only claim to fame is their lover or their beloved and nothing else motivates them personally.  

Should such people be banned from the particular mission that they owe their allegiance to? Should they be weeded out physically? Should they be accosted by exposing their reality? Because their groups just keep multiplying and expanding without any type of personal growth or even any type of spiritual awakening. They always feel inadequate, they are short of any type of constructive action and they are always tormented in all their material relations repeatedly.

However, there also exist so many ISCKON members globally who live in large villages symbiotically. Many really educated people who throng such missions are actually very highly educated and they do not practise or encourage any such type of licentious behavior fortunately. But the ones who are not educated or socially adept in such circles are the ones who are always complaining- or the ones who are always hopeful of gaining something materially.  

Many such types of people are only motivated by the emotion of love basically- they do everything mentally and emotionally. Their path is the path of Bhakti but instead of loving God, they love each other most passionately. The end result of all their actions is just that they are all the practitioners of romanticism shorn of any type of metaphysics or larger ideal practically.