Living alone is not something that everyone can handle, but the ones who do land up alone are the most advanced materially and spiritually also. Being alone means that you have unlimited freedom, you are answerable to no one, and you can self reflect to improve your life and your value systems.
You can’t live alone unless you have a timetable guiding you, unless you have clear goal systems, and you have set yourself clear boundaries. Many people in elaborate family setups are the most unhappy, so much so that they spread only unhappiness wherever they go. When you are alone, you can think of morals, think independently spiritually and guard yourselves against the middle class value systems that guide the majority of the population globally.
Living alone tests the idea of getting yourself a soulmate- this might be a fallacious reality for so many. We keep looking outward for partners and relationships and all the while keep deteriorating heavily. A person who has no friends automatically has no enemies. A person who is all alone can never be a burden or a liability to anybody. Her relationships are for real and for keeps, and she refuses to carry any kind of emotional baggage piled up onto her by some other person claiming to express solidarity..
As such, most loners have only a very close circuit of people surrounding them and they mean the world to each other mutually. Most isolated people are perfectionists and their contributions to society are priceless and lofty. Their relationships are not based upon any petty or trivial pursuits, in fact, most of their relationships are perfectly aligned. When you are alone, you can work on your own goals and become really good at the work that you do- there is a lot of conservation of time and energy. There is plenty of time to reflect and spend more hours at the activities that mean a lot to you personally. There are no shackles binding you- you can come and go as you please- you can lead a life that is full of abundance and prosperity. Although it is important to be social, it is a lot more important to be happy and independent and accomplished.
Be alone to be perfect, be alone to be happy.
Independence is not something that can be handed over, it is something that has to be achieved.
