Yes, I think so wholeheartedly. To feel and live with a lot of love and passion in your life won’t necessarily make your life any simpler or easier and this is the most tragic reality.
Most love affairs break down over time rather painfully- most people who claim to be in love are involved with other people at the same time most sinfully. I know of many men and women who have given in to the monster Kali knowingly. They will not stand their ground, they will not fight against him, in fact, they will ally and work with him most disgustingly. This has led to a lot of deviant people gaining prominence and business leadership.
Such people are hell bent on empowering other deviant and sinful people thereby causing a worldwide movement of corruption and debauchery. Even the cops do not act against them because of their rampant bribery. Any person who proclaims that he or she is in love is also polygamous and polyamorous additionally and that too knowingly. The bitter truth remains then, that we were born alone and we will have to die alone submitting to the reality of life and loving albeit most grudgingly.
Every time that you fall in love, you should be prepared to accept a broken heart dreadfully. This is the reason why nearly all Indian parents insist on marrying their offspring off via a traditional Indian arranged marriage.
This is not to say that marriage is an irrelevant institution- but the ones who want to enter it should be prepared to get heartbroken also simultaneously. Many people in broken relationships get involved with several other single and married people thereby rendering the institution of marriage redundant and bereft of any chastity or morality. Marriage to them is just another ordeal in their dreadfully broken and complex internal battles all so pathetically.
Most married people become like machines and robots treating their partners and families rather mechanically- where is the romance, where is the loving, where are the desires planted in both people unwittingly? Most women in love work like maids and chefs in their households whereas most men just go out to entertain other female co-workers and colleagues most disgustingly.
Due to all these results and reasonings, one should ask of oneself, “Do I really need to marry?” When I did that personally, I found myself denying the absolute need to get some other stranger into my personal and inward space most certainly. Falling in love and into a relationship doesn’t just cost a lot of inward and mental anguish and suffering, it causes a lot of physical drawbacks and unhealthy side effects to the normal functioning of your body.
