For everyone who claims to say that the feminist movement should be banned in India, these 2 murder cases are a huge shock to their sleeping consciences. Just for the record, there are at least 16 dowry related deaths in India in our Jihadi and Khalistani infested country- love jihad forms a very high percentage of all that is fundamentally flawed within the collective Indian males’ psyche.
Both Twisha and Deepika died despite their parents’ generous gifts and enhancements when the 2 young ladies got married and left to live with their spouses ever so traditionally.
The continuous deaths and murders taking place of our just married women should compel us to think, rethink, and rethink again our modern contexts for the cohabitation of both, our men and women, some of them who are just 24 or 25 years of age ever so shockingly.
The truth remains that even when 2 of our younger people get married, they are not really or truly in love with each other even minutely. The man in question is often in love with another female and the woman also loves someone else secretly. It might also be the case that each person is denied his or her romantic fantasy because of which they have to find and settle with a person who their parents think is a good match for them. So tragic, but the truth remains that our younger people are coaxed just to get good marks and work professionally- their parents never cajole or coax them to find a suitable partner- one facet of life that is immensely important socio-economically.
Another reason is that the young men in our country just can’t see the women in their groups and societies living independently- both emotionally and financially- they want to marry, nurture, and breed freely, but so do the women and many such young men and women get ditched or rejected extremely frequently.
Then there is the imminent danger of love jihad or that is when some men from the neighboring countries enter into marriage contracts with the people of our country only to murder or break their hearts and also their bank balances, most of such instances are just out of pure vengeance from the neighboring countries.
The misogyny in Indian society is deep rooted- they want men who can run the household instead of women who have to be protected, spoiled and taken care of entirely- but the equation is slowly evolving into one wherein the women are getting their independence and freedom back entirely. They get jobs, they get married, they are able to run their households and ALSO earn quite sufficiently- this is turning our young men off – they hate the fact that their married partners are also their equals in virtually everything.
Then again, our Indian society is full of people in arranged marriages wherein the male and the female in question were chosen to marry by their respective parents and families. Many really progressive and forward-looking families are steeped in such traditional value -based partnerships natively. Such people say that they start loving their partners after getting hitched instead of marrying after dating and loving someone they chose personally.
It appears to be that as the independent woman is seen advancing in Indian society, the global cults of misogyny and anti-feminism are growing with them ever so rapidly.
Most Indian couples who are highly educated and advanced do tend to fly abroad to other countries to earn better and also to escape their parents’ monopoly and grip over their personal lives and existences. Many such couples are in sham agreements and very often either the man or the woman concerned gets killed or dies out of suicide just because they were unable to handle the situation singlehandedly. These arrangements also deliver so many murders, deaths and killings and suicides routinely.
So, the women of our country have to learn to live by whatever decision they have made either solitarily or also in their business and matrimonial alliances that they or their parents have chosen for them independently or in partnerships that they have entered into mutually.
